Just had a thought, didn't think much about it, but what if the game would allow to "forgive" killers afterwards if they would get a SL hit?
After death you get a screen with all the people that would get a Soullight Hit because they were involved with your killing. You can then decide to forgive one, a few or all of them just as you wish. You can also ignore it, close the window or Genrep out, in which case the Hits would occur normally.