Neocron, unlike EQ, doesn't have the backing of a megacorp like Sony.
Neocron, unlike EQ, doesn't have a 13% share of the MMOG market (source
mmogchart.com), the money which comes with such a player base.
Neocron most likely has a much smaller dev team than EQ.
Neocron, unlike EQ, is based off a bastardised 4 year old engine that KK seem intent on breaking just to get a "headline grabbing" boss mob.
Neocron 2, unlike EQ2, hasn't yet been officially released in all territories.
And msot of all, Neocron, unlike EQ, doesn't have a long track record of frequent updates and expansions.
The recent announcements from KK and appoint of Nidhogg as community liason doesn't mean KK is suddenly going to church out a patch every week that fixes all the major bugs in Neocron. It's just not going to happen.
In fact, other than increased communication from KK, which is nice, I am currently sceptical that anything new will happen. As I said before, why do KK need to appoint someone to tell them that we want what they promised us 6 months ago in their plan files and NC2 announcements.
From what you're saying it sounds like you're waiting for a patch that's going to fix all the bugs, memory leaks and FRE's and give everyone a steady 200 fps everywhere. Well I've got news for you - it'll never happen.
My advice is that if you don't like playing the game as it is now, leave and go out with your mates or whatever, you'll be a much happier person.
Athon Solo