Bleh - It's all down to how people percieve. Now there was a couple that I knew at uni -the lady of the pair was a right laugh - down to earth funny and all that - which meant drinking shenangans had to be had - But i could never tune into the fella - he always seemed to be on top note sounding like an idiot - till I got to know him.
He's a quality bloke, Great sense of humour - just tries to hard to impress, hence The reasoning for he's an ass. Just cos they seem lame doesn't mean they are - then again - even if they are - it's the laydois who chose them, so she can't have had that much sense to begin with - therefore not a good choice in company anyhow.
Lexx - yes - but if having more than one woman in life makes you a tart, then tart me up. Just because people are in and out of relationships doesn't make them Arseholes. On my hand it was just poor choice of women, funny how they never appear insane till a few weeks in eh?